The one that stays and does not walk away;
The one that has your back, communication is never a lack;
By your side, proudly, the one stands;
Believing in the love you both share, walking hand in hand;
Fantasies within dreams are brought to life and together we create our own wonderland;
What is love? It is different for everyone. But I do believe, when we are ready for love, love happens. We may desire it, but not be ready for it. If we are not balanced in the rest of the areas in our life, we will find that we attract other people that are not balanced. It is like a mirror, to help us see and grow and make changes for the better, if we are ready. When we have done the work to love ourselves and our own lives this will then reflect and attract others that do the same.
What does it take for love to last? It takes confidence in the connection you both share, it takes honesty, compatibility,responsibility, protection, vulnerability, patience, understanding, communication, listening, kindness, compassion and enthusiasm. A loving relationship is a beautiful sacred thing and should be treated with respect, nurtured and taken care of mentally, physically and soulfully. It does not just exist, it takes heart felt effort to keep this beautiful connection alive. Time has to be put into anything worth while. Your true love connection will grow stronger and expand into areas of your life that you had only ever dreamed of, the more you cherish, encourage and support it.
How do we find love? By allowing it to come to us. Be ready for it. Take action to open doors to make your percentages higher in meeting people without obsessing. Join a dating site. Allow the mutual connections to happen, do not chase. When you meet “The One” you will both know it.
By: Victoria Levine