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How To Date: Expressing Love

The power of freedom felt within a relationship makes your relationship stronger.

 

Love must be allowed to express itself freely, like a butterfly’s radiant energy that ignites when it spreads it’s wings and takes flight, surrounding you in a magical dance of colorful light. If you try to control the butterfly by keeping it captive you will cause the wings of magic to turn to dust and the radiant light of love will dim and fall away from you. The shine that once surrounded you out of choice will be doused and extinguished from the fear of a flight you had no control of. Freedom felt within a relationship brings you both closer, knowing you can leave and put your attention elsewhere but then choosing to stay out of choice, makes each person realize where their priorities lie and how much they love being with each other.

By: Victoria Levine

How To Date: Finding The One

Fantasy Love

The one that stays and does not walk away;
The one that has your back, communication is never a lack;
By your side, proudly, the one stands;
Believing in the love you both share, walking hand in hand;
Fantasies within dreams are brought to life and together we create our own wonderland;

Victoria Levine

What is love?  It is different for everyone.  But I do believe, when we are ready for love, love happens.  We may desire it, but not be ready for it.  If we are not balanced in the rest of the areas in our life, we will find that we attract other people that are not balanced.  It is like a mirror, to help us see and grow and make changes for the better, if we are ready.  When we have done the work to love ourselves and our own lives this will then reflect and attract others that do the same.

What does it take for love to last?  It takes confidence in the connection you both share, it takes honesty, compatibility,responsibility, protection, vulnerability, patience, understanding, communication, listening, kindness, compassion and enthusiasm.  A loving relationship is a beautiful sacred thing and should be treated with respect, nurtured and taken care of mentally, physically and soulfully.  It does not just exist, it takes heart felt effort to keep this beautiful connection alive.  Time has to be put into anything worth while.  Your true love connection will grow stronger and expand into areas of your life that you had only ever dreamed of, the more you cherish, encourage and support it.

How do we find love?  By allowing it to come to us.  Be ready for it.  Take action to open doors to make your percentages higher in meeting people without obsessing.  Join a dating site.  Allow the mutual connections to happen, do not chase.  When you meet “The One” you will both know it.

By: Victoria Levine

How To Date: Reality Dating

Possibilities

I will be your friend if you will be mine;
Appreciating our communication over distance and time;
Anything is possible when the heart is followed;
Creating the reality that one desires while ego and fear are
swallowed;

By: Victoria Levine

What do we feel are realistic choices that  we decide on in choosing a partner?  The bottom line is we choose our own reality!  

If there is something wonderful out there that has the potential to be attained, it will be worth exploring.  A risk of the heart is always at stake but as the saying goes, nothing ventured, nothing gained.  Only we know what we want.  Listen to your heart, without second guessing yourself and your answers will be clear. Once you second guess yourself, your head will start spinning and your thoughts will spiral out of control.  When meeting someone and finding you both share a passionate connection with many other interests in common, let it be all that it is meant to be.  No games, just observe one another over time to see if action backs up passion, or if it is all talk.  If enthusiasm turns into effort, you have a sincere person in front of you.  Enjoy, respect, share intimately, communicate lovingly and nurture the relationship.  Let it blossom and grow every day, discovering something new and beautiful about each other.  Love, compatibility, sex, laughter, kindness, compassion, romance and caring lay a strong foundation for a successful relationship.

By: Victoria Levine

 

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