Is your whole body honored while you stand naked in front of one another?  Touching every place on each other that you feel is beautiful.  A stroke or caress with the hand down your cheek as your lips meet.  Gliding hands down the muscles and curves of your back, continuing down your thighs, then nibbling your toes.  A warm sensation of the tongue sliding up your body and across your chest.  Enjoying the whole body as we merge into the essence of our souls.  Granting each other’s desires, two halves become one whole.

Touching you as if you have never been touched before, in places that bring you pleasure, making you wet aroused and hot.  Or, is it straight to the pleasure spot to stimulate quickly, to then penetrate?

What is sex verses eroticism?  It takes patience, love, curiosity, giving, confidence, sensuality, desire and open mindedness to be erotic.  Not everyone has the desire to put themselves in this place.  If this is who you are, you cannot settle for someone that does not have these desires.  It will leave you feeling unfulfilled even after you orgasm.  There will be a feeling that something is missing and you will feel it deep down in your soul.  The language of sex is a powerful  tool that can heighten the communication between two compatible lovers.  Creating a bond that words cannot describe.  Part of attracting the right partner, is to know what category you fall into.  For guidance on becoming more errotic in a healthy way, there are plenty of books on Tantric and Kama Sutra sex techniques.

By: Victoria Levine